Comments on: Area Brahmacari Victim of Kaupin-related Flashbacks

By: Nandini

Nandini — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 13:43:44 +0000

“In the spirit of Vaishnavism, I apologize for my crude and offensive remark.”

Which follows that real vaisnavas are respectful of women whether these behave despicably or gloriously. Vaisnavas are the ultimate feminists.

You learn well my fellow jiva soul.

By: Boy-R-D dasa (not the chef)

Boy-R-D dasa (not the chef) — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 03:22:32 +0000

In the spirit of Vaishnavism, I apologize for my crude and offensive remark.

By: Nandini

Nandini — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 01:03:29 +0000

But I apologized to you individually for using your joke to MAKE A POINT, did you see my apology?

Anyway, I apologize again then. It is just that I am very serious about my feminist streak, I tend to use every opportunity to enlighten males regarding the feminine nature.

By: Boy-R-D dasa (not the cook)

Boy-R-D dasa (not the cook) — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 22:53:08 +0000

Nandini you can dish it out but you can’t take it. You jibed me in the ribs for my spelling, so I thought you were attacking me, and I attacked back, all in good fun of course.

I thought this was supposed to be a fun site, where we could laugh about things, light comedy, but suddenly everything has gotten real heavy and cold.

By: Nandini

Nandini — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 21:28:28 +0000

And if you weren’t, um, 100%, would you have done something special?

I am not really interested in your particular life one way or another. I am inquiring like this just so to hopefully make the point across of how invasive and abusive of men in general to joke with women (whom they don’t even know) whether they were available for sex just because they are female. Like your insinuating question to me when I told about my ironing my spiritual master’s underwear, “did you do something special for him”: what does one thing have to do with the other? You wouldn’t ask like that if I were a man, would you? So I put the question back to you so you hopefully have some idea of how does it feel to be on the receiving end of this rude and abusive behavior women are subjected to just because of our gender.

If a stranger asked your wife whether she did “special” sexual favors for some man other than yourself, you wouldn’t easily take it as a joke, right?

All women are respectable, regardless of their sexual behavior.

By: Boy-R-D dasa (not the chef)

Boy-R-D dasa (not the chef) — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 18:07:22 +0000

I am 100% hetorosexual. No funny business for me. I used to live in a tiny room with 20 other Brahmacaris. Now if there is one man in 20 feet of me, it puts me in total anxiety.

By: Nandini

Nandini — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 12:28:59 +0000

Boy-R-D,

Did I do something special? No I didn’t.

Did you?

By: Boy-R-D dasa (not the chef)

Boy-R-D dasa (not the chef) — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 03:21:37 +0000

Once on the Johnny Carson Show, Arnold Palmer’s wife was being interviewed. Johnny asked her if she did anything special before a big golf tournament. She stated that she kissed his balls for good luck. Johnny snaped back – “oooh I bet that makes his putter stand on end”. The Palmers sued.

By: Boy-R-D dasa (not the chef)

Boy-R-D dasa (not the chef) — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 03:18:45 +0000

Did you do anything special to wish him luck before he went out on parikrama?

By: Nandini

Nandini — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 23:57:43 +0000

I ironed my spiritual master’s kaupins once and all the while I was thinking “this is so sacred”. Boy was I in illusion. Wewww!